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46 Clues Your Partner is Having an Affair
by Dr. Robert Huizenga,

Some of these are "tongue in cheek" while others are tell tale signs that
commonly appear when someone is having an affair.


1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a
vasectomy.

2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the
cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you
are.)

3) He / she stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.

4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.

5) He / she leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and
returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.

6) He / she joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.

7) He / she buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.

8) He / she sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.

9) He carries condoms, and you are on the pill.

10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

11) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.

12) He / she becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being true , usually out of
guilt.

13) Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible to love
more than one person at a time?"

14) He / she buys  new underwear.

15) He / she  insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.

16) He / she stops wearing her wedding ring.

17) Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.

18) Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.

19) Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.

20) He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.

21) He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.

22) Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.

23) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

24) You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off
from work - but supposedly worked on those days.

25) Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.

26) Spouse's coworkers are uncomfortable in your presence.

27) Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.

28) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you
have gone to bed.

29) Change in eating habits.

30) Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than
previously.

31) His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see
lipstick on your husband's shirt.

32) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops
off.

33) You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did
not give your spouse.

34) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and
easily moved to anger.

35) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.

36) He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.

37) Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.

38) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.

39) He / she uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.

40) She has a "glow" about her.

41) Atypical erratic behavior.

42) He / she sneaks out of the house.

43) She sleeps with her purse by the bed

44) He / She goes to the store and comes home 5 hours later.

45) He / she tells they can be reached at a different telephone number.

46)
The BEST telltale sign of a cheating spouse? Having to
ask that question in the first place.
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